Why I Put My Husband Before My Kids

Even my husband will be shocked reading this title. The thoughts "Who? Lili? Puts her husband first?" will probably run through his mind. Mind you, if you are reading this dear husband, I do try to put you first even if you might not feel it (yet). There is no doubt that I can never [...]

The Number One Marriage Advice

When are there problems in a marriage? The answer is when both parties are in defence mode and no longer try to understand the other party during a conflict. Standing up for ourselves is a real killer in a relationship. It's human nature to always want to be right. It's human nature to want to [...]

3 Key Habits That Saved Our Relationship

A few months ago, my husband and I had a heart to heart talk. Well, actually it was a heart to heart text messaging. It was past midnight and I was in the bedroom trying to fall sleep (I've always had trouble falling asleep) while he was on the living room sofa being depressed about the state of our relationship, on top of everything else from work that was bothering him