If there's one thing that we often overlook in our relationship, it would be the support we give to our spouse. Your mind might already be running, "Are you kidding me, Lili? I support my husband in every single way!" See, that's the thing. Most of us feel that we are already doing enough to [...]
Dear husband, it's been 9 years and 6 months that we've been married. A lot has changed, and I have changed a lot. I am no longer the person you fell in love with. Do you still love me? Dear wife, it's been 9 years and 6 months that I get to see you grow [...]
When most of us entered our marriage, we couldn't wait to spend the rest of our lives with our partner. At least that was the dream. But as life went on, our spouse began taking the backseat in our lives. Work had to come first. Then kids. At the end of the day we barely have the energy to connect with our spouse.
Dear Husband, One of the happiest days of my life was the day we decided to be together for the rest of our lives. Since then, you've been an amazing partner. Your embrace loosens my tensions, your kiss on my forehead assures me that you are here for me, your hand holding mine lets me [...]
My husband and I have been married for almost 9 years. And believe it or not, we went without dates for the first 8 years. It took a toll on our intimacy, it took a toll on our mental health and it took a toll on the kids. We didn't have time to be ourselves. [...]
Even my husband will be shocked reading this title. The thoughts "Who? Lili? Puts her husband first?" will probably run through his mind. Mind you, if you are reading this dear husband, I do try to put you first even if you might not feel it (yet). There is no doubt that I can never [...]
It's not unusual that in some relationships, the woman feels that her marriage is going fine while her husband feels otherwise. How could two people in the same relationship have different feelings about how well their relationship is doing? That's because men and women have different love language and different needs. And more often than [...]
A few months ago, my husband and I had a heart to heart talk. Well, actually it was a heart to heart text messaging. It was past midnight and I was in the bedroom trying to fall sleep (I've always had trouble falling asleep) while he was on the living room sofa being depressed about the state of our relationship, on top of everything else from work that was bothering him